Bullies to Buddies: A Revolutionary Guide to Reducing Aggression between Children
by Izzy Kalman, MS
Are you a parent or a teacher? Has the fighting and bickering between kids brought you to your wits’ end?
The simple advice in this manual can reduce their aggression by 70, 80, or even 90%! And it will require less effort on your part! Imagine what you can do with all the time and energy you’ll save!
In the process, the independence, resilience, and emotional maturity of the children in your care will be enhanced.
See what others have said about Izzy Kalman’s approach to problem solving...
”If you are serious about putting a stop to bullying and teasing you must use Izzy Kalman’s techniques. I have spoken to hundreds of groups about bullying and teasing and never seen the results that I have after applying Izzy’s strategies. I have seen every other program designed to stop this problem, but Izzy’s is the only one that works!”
—Paul Reddick, Chairman, American Sportsmanship Association
“A total paradigm shift – finally it all makes sense”
—Frances Micelli, Counselor/State Administrator, Atlantic City, New Jersey
“His methods have enabled conflicts and violent situations to be resolved and squashed.”
—Paul Choset, Principal, PS 54, Staten Island, NY
“Because of this workshop, I am taking a whole new look at how we handle bullies in school. I’m not sure how this will be received in the schools in light of the bullying law pressures. I like the fact that you teach skills to victims.”
—Mary O’Meara, Counselor/Marriage and Family Therapist/Social Worker, Atlantic City, New Jersey
“My own four children were quite young when my wife and I asked Mr. Kalman for advice on how to deal with their getting along with each other. We followed his suggestions consistently over the years. Now many people have remarked to me how well my children get along with each other and what a nice family life we have. When anyone says these things, I always feel grateful to Israel Kalman for giving me the best advice as a parent that anyone ever has.”
—Rabbi Gerald Sussman, Temple Emanu-El, Staten Island, NY
“I needed this before school started! The ideas and steps are clear, rational, and logical. We should all be using this instead of Bully Proofing!”
—Donna Winchester, Counselor, El Paso, Texas
“Very valuable for elementary teachers, especially Physical Education!!”
—Jerome Kosters, Elementary Phys. Ed. Teacher, Phoenix, Arizona
“The information has made clear the things I see in the classroom on a regular basis. I can see more clearly students’ problems.”
—Ann M. Anton, Teacher, Lansing, Michigan
“This training would be excellent for all teachers and parents.”
—Karen Horstmann, Counselor, Raleigh, North Carolina
“Excellent!!! This seminar should be required for anyone working with or raising children. This seminar truly presents the ‘movement’ that is needed in response to the ‘bully scare’.”
—Philip Winter, Psychologist, Director of Mental Health, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
“Not only did I obtain information regarding the topic, but also techniques and activities to help bring back to my school and teach both staff and students. Great job and very thought provoking – changing my thoughts on our school bullying policy.”
—Melissa Thompson, Social Worker, Atlantic City, New Jersey
“As a parent, and especially as a counselor, I thank you.”

